I find the many facets of relationships fascinating. From our romantic relationships to the bonds we share with our children, our lives are full of connections. However, not all of the relationships that we form are good ones. Sometimes, people just do not seem to get on with one another, no matter how hard they try. The question is, what is the reason that some of us just do not seem to be compatible?
Do you ever wonder why you do not mesh well with certain people? Here is why we do not always get along with everyone we meet.Photo Source
The number one reason that we do not get along with everyone is because of our personalities. Thanks to genetics, we are all made up in different ways. While some of us are loud, others of us are quiet. Some of us like being the centre of attention, while others prefer to stay out of the limelight. It is things like these that determine how successful certain relationships will be. Often, the more different you are to someone else, the less likely your relationship
with them will be successful.
For example, say you are someone who has been brought up in a modest way, and then you meet someone who has had a luxe upbringing. The things that the two of you will have experienced during your lives will be very different. Sometimes, this can bring you closer together but most of the time it can lead to cracks in your relationship. Perhaps you do not understand each other’s feelings on certain things? The truth is the more different the two of you are, the less successful your relationship tends to be.Your two personalities combined
Another major factor that affects how successful relationships can be is your characters combined. As mentioned above, some personalities just do not ‘gel’ well together. One reason for this could be to do with your month of birth and star sign. You see, studies have shown that there are star signs that tend to work better together than others.
If you read your free daily horoscope, you will probably already know this. However, if you are not someone who believes in the power of astrology, it could be worth rethinking it. Have you ever noticed it is people born in certain months that you do not tend to get along well with? Or maybe, that at certain times of the year, you are closer to some people than others? Both of these things could be down to your star sign and astrology. Pretty interesting, right? Could the stars really define whom you get on well with?The type of relationship you have
Last but not least, one of the most crucial factors when it comes to how successful certain relationships are
is how much time you spend together. While there are some people you can spend all of your time with, without any upsets or arguments, there are others that you can only cope with a small amount of. Sometimes, if you are too similar to someone, often a close relative, spending too much time together can result in arguments. For example, growing up a lot of siblings fight constantly
. Often, this is because they are too alike and spend too much time together. However, as they get older and develop their own personalities and lives, they start to get on better.
Can you think of other factors that affect how successful your relationships are?
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